How Should I Handle My Man Forgetting My Birthday?

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I was and still am so angry. He doesn't remember her birthday doesn't mean he won't treat her well on a daily basis. A pet's love is very pure.

Obviously, I forgot about that and would just ask how his dáy was, not his job in particular. However he makes all kinds of excuses. Next year, remind him it's your birthday a month out. I keep telling myself, it doesn't have to be a big deal, I should get over it and look past it, he is a wonderful guy in many other regards...

How Should I Handle My Man Forgetting My Birthday?

Yesterday was my birthday. I have been together 2 years with my boyfriend and he forgot my birthday yesterday. I'm really upset about this because he always treats me well and I can't say anything bad about him but I can't understand how he could forget my birthday. When I told him last night per text, he was shocked that he forgot it and said that he had so much on his mind with moving, however he knows that is no excuse. He tried calling me about 20 times but I ignored him. I don't know how to go about with this... I'm just so disappointed and don't feel like talking to him for a while. Has this happened to any of you? How would you go about with it? You have every right to be upset, that's a pretty serious thing to do. But, ignoring his calls and not speaking to him for ages isn't really going to help anyone. It's going to make him feel really bad and it's going to mean you just sit there sulking and thinking that he doesn't love you for days on end until you convince yourself that he's not the right guy for you and subsequently really hate him for a while. Yes, forgetting your partner of 2 years' birthday is unacceptable, but it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you or that you're not important in his life. If he's in the middle of moving house or something, it is understandable that he has a lot on his mind, but still, he should have remembered your birthday. Some people are just really forgetful - I'm one of those people. I often remember that it's someone's birthday about a week before and sometimes get them a card or present or something, then on the day I completely forget until I notice it on my calendar or something. It doesn't mean they're not important, just that I forgot. So, instead of making him suffer your silence, I suggest you use it to your advantage. Right now, he knows that he's really in the wrong and that you're really upset. That means he really wants to make it up to you. He ought to get you a really nice gift or something. If you ignore him for a few days, he's going to stop feeling sorry and start feeling annoyed and therefore not be in a particularly generous mood. So, next time he calls or whatever, answer and talk to him. Let him apologize, make it clear that you're upset, but say you'll forgive him if he takes you out for a nice dinner or if you can go away for the weekend together or something like that - make him feel that he owes you he really does! I'm in the final round of a competition to volunteer round the world for a year. You can see my entry at: www. So could you do me a huge favour and vote for me? It only takes 30 seconds and I would really appreciate it! Thanks:D Happy birthday even tough I'm a bit late.. But we men are kinda forgetfull I kinda am the same as your boyfriend really.. I don't know anyones birthday exept my own, its probably because some guys dint attach much value to birthdays and holidays. Id be even forgetting hollidays without a calender All my exes kept it in tge back of their heads: we got a relationship at this exact date, while I'm like oh it was un June.. Big diffrence as you can see.. But yeah you have the right to be upset but don't be too hard on the poor dude Wow, you're making a big deal out of this. He apologized, you have other birthdays that will come around. You should apologize to him for blowing it out of proportion. Perhaps, he will make it up to you and you can make it up to him. Not everybody can remember such a date when they have so much on their mind, cut him some slack. It's just once, be happy he doesn't have amnesia. Oh yeah, HE APOLOGIZED, I'll shoot you in the leg and apologize, no big deal. I mean an apology makes everything okay, right? And for what the hell kind of reason should she apologize to him? Personally, I'd say suck it up and forgive him. Yeah it hurts that he forgot your birthday but to be honest, not everyone is good at remembering those things. Did you mention it at all coming up to it? Men sometimes need little reminders. Heck, my Dad of all people forgot how old I was and had to ask! Ignoring his calls is also a little immature, you should talk to him about it. He's moving, its incredibly stressful and I think its valid reason for forgetting your birthday. What I don't understand is why you didn't tell him till the night time. Surely if he hadn't called or texted you to wish you happy birthday before then surely that set off a red flag in your mind. Basically, talk to him, let him apologize and make it up to you. Hey, I know exactly how you fee. I was really upset and dissapointed and it was hard to forgive him, however he made it very clear that he really did forget and it was not on purpose. The next day he sent me a huge bunch of flowers. Although I still can't understand how on earth you could forget your girlfriend birthday, I moved on and I know that deep down he really loves me and he has proved that many other times. We'll see how he'd feel about THAT, maybe next time he'd take your birthday more seriously. And you fully have the right to be as pissed off as you want to. And I don't think you should just go up and forgive him right away. He has to make it up to you, properly. If you don't wanna talk to him, do that. Just let him know he's not just gonna slip and slide through this like nothing happened. No, it's very important especially for the one you love to remember it, spoil you and enjoy it together. It's not about the expensive gifts or going to a fancy restaurant, just a nice red rose will do. It just shows how much this person cares about you. So, yeah, it's important and you are not overreacting. You have all the right to feel upset. On the other hand, I believe it when he says that he totally forgot - not a good excuse or even justified but I believe him. Sometimes you are overwhelmed and stressed that you forget which day it is today. I think he is very sorry and this is why he tried to make it up for you and I'm sure he'll think of something sweet the next days. Anything sweet and sincere will do. As you said, he has always been treating you well so no need to ruin what you have for just one mistake. I am really upset despite his call and apologies afterwards. He was sick so I was expecting him to stay home and rest. Later he told me that he went out for a work party and he did not say a happy birthday to me. I am letting go this for now and waiting to see how he acts after this. I'll evaluate our relationship based on his overall actions not just one incidence. I want to give him a chance because this is not a deadly mistake and know that we all make mistakes. It won't be acceptable if the same thing persists over and over. Then I will reevaluate and perhaps move on.

But then if you want to keep him, also take some responsibility yourself for making it go more smoothly next year. It then becomes a bit more sincere. It is poisonous, it is ignorant, and it is low class. I have never forgotten his birthday, but last year I didn't do anything intentionally. A reader, anonymous, writes 23 February 2011 : well my boyfriend was the first to wish me a happy print, exactly midnight on skype. If you allow him when your boyfriend forgets your birthday forget in the beginning, or allow him justify his reasons, believe me he will continue the pattern throughout. I remembered it I just didn't feel like celebrating it with you since you never help me celebrate mine. In the cab between home I was clutching the flowers and crying again, but this time out of joy. I feel like an asshole. Does birthdays mean a lot to you to sacrfice your relationship with him after you are with him for 6 years. This year he sent me a sol of a lamp with the price tag in clear view and asked me which colour i'd like before my birthday.